Will Justin Bieber & Selena Gomez Risk Their Romance If They Work Together?

Its an Extinsion of the following blog http://weareselenators.blogspot.com/2011/04/selena-gomez-not-planning-justin-bieber.html...

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Selena and Justin are dating — after weeks of playing coy, the couple finally admitted their romance is for real. Of course from the standpoint of a relationship expert, I can’t put much credence into the notion that teenage dating has any weight or depth, especially between two megastars. It seems like Justin still has trouble keeping his pants off the ground. How is he able to navigate a meaningful relationship?

Which leads me to the current news of Justin, 17, and Selena, 18, potentially mixing business with pleasure. She hedged a bit when first asked about any future collaborations at the 2011 Kids’ Choice Awards. But when she was asked point-blank if she’d ever record a duet with Justin, her answer was a great big “YES!”

So should these two be making sweet music together? Is it smart to work with your romantic partner? Not if you’re a teenager in the early stages of immature love. Finding a boyfriend or girlfriend to spend time with at any age isn’t easy. The last thing you want to do is start blending your personal lives together, especially when you have an audience of millions of people watching your every move. For most folks, the notion of working with a significant other or spouse sounds — at best — stupid. At worst, it’s a direct path to emotional and relationship collapse!

Trust me, I know this firsthand. I work with my wife, Tamsen, in our shared businesses, and it is not easy. It requires a constant level of communication and consideration built after years of respect and discovery about what it takes to make it work. How in the world can a 17-year-old boy and an 18-year-old girl balance the demands and pressures of sharing their life and work? They need to be careful about any situation that could spin out of their control. Justin is a creation of the current state of the music industry and Selena is a highly polished product of kid-friendly commercialism, which means any duet could become nothing more than a cool and calculated move of brand strategy.

These two teen idols have to pull it back, concentrate on being young and free. Any serious type of relationship can narrow a young adult’s interests, emotional growth and involvement with others. This would just make things tougher.

Here’s my advice for Justin and Selena — keep your budding romance duet-free!

AGAINST THE TOPIC

Oh young love, it’s always so wild and passionate. I think Justin and Selena are sweet together. They’re cute, talented and totally at the top of their games. Why wouldn’t they want to collaborate on a song?

For two people as famous as Selena and Justin,  it is nearly impossible to completely separate their work and personal lives. But the level of fame that fuels them also bonds them. Their lives are not normal. They have managers, agents, entire teams of people guiding the way. If they did work together and record a song, it’s not like they would just stumble into the studio together. They’d have a huge level of support in making it happen.

Teen romance is not a new phenomenon. Remember that old standard by Donny Osmond, “Puppy Love”? But nowadays it does seem that young people are more actively engaged in the dating and relationship world. Being “single” at the ripe old age of 13 can be seen as weird by today’s kids — especially those who compete with their peers to live life in the fast lane and aspire to be, act and look just like young celebrities.

I just hope the adults in all these children’s lives are giving them solid guidance and directives. For Selena and Justin, I’d focus them on enjoying the precious time they get to spend together with as little pressure as possible. They really need to think about the ups and downs of working together. As I tell all my clients who are thinking of joining forces on a business or partnership: You must have understanding, passion, commitment, flexibility — and lots of patience! If Justin and Selena can embrace all of the elements they needed to develop, then I say go for it, you two!

Go ahead, knock out a hit song — I’m sure that all your many fans will agree!

What do you feel

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Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber relationship problems are just rumors!!

Rumors about Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez's relationship being on the rocks is just not backed up with any facts. Certain irresponsible websites have spread rumors that they simply can not prove. But now they are taking it up another level by claiming that Gomez's decision not to thank Bieber during her Kids Choice Awards acceptance speech means that there is trouble in paradise.

The rumors about their relationship troubles started almost as soon as they became a couple. But, they intensified recently over supposed "tendentious" Tweets, as one website put it, between the two. Their Tweets were not "tendentious" and are not a sign of any problems.

If that wasn't enough, certain websites have posted the most ridiculous articles you may ever read. They actually had the nerve to write about how Selena Gomez didn't thank Justin Bieber during her acceptance speech for winning Kids Choice Award. They claim that this is a sign that their relationship is in trouble.

The sites that wrote these articles should be shut down for pure stupidity. They are so ridiculous that they don't even deserve to have their names mentioned. If you really want to read the articles just Google "Selena Gomez Didn't Thank Justin Bieber at KCAs Speech" and you can experience the stupidity for yourself.

Why in the world would Gomez thank Bieber during her acceptance speech? What has he done to help her career? What did he do to help her win that award? Absolutely nothing is what he has done. Bieber is her boyfriend and that's it. You don't have to thank your boyfriend for winning an award especially if he didn't do anything to help you win.

The fact that this is being used as a reason to speculate about their relationship is simply moronic. 

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Selena Gomez not planning Justin Bieber duet

Selena Gomez has no plans to duet with boyfriend Justin Bieber.

The 18 year-old insisted that she would rather keep her personal life and career separate.

Asked if she had considered teaming up with Bieber, she told E!: 'I don't know. With my friends, I always make sure that I try to keep family and business separate because it doesn't really go well sometimes... I don't know about that. We'll see.'

Selena Gomez added that she hopes to take her career in a different direction when she gets older.

'Ultimately I'd like to slow everything down and just do acting when I'm older,' she said. 'But right now I have a passion for music. I'm young and I love travelling and I'm embracing all that.'

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Selena Gomez at the Kids' Choice Awards without Justin Bieber!!

Selena Gomez looked adorable as usual at the Kids' Choice Awards this evening. The starlet was noticeably without her man Justin Bieber (he's touring in Europe, so had a good excuse), and he certainly missed out!

Her sassy ensemble deserved its solo spotlight, though. She strut her stylish stuff in a feather print blouse and shorts by Christian Cota. Then topped it all off with bright blue Camila Skovgaard sandals and a Lauren Merkin clutch.

The Kids' Choice Awards went down at the Galen Center on April 2, 2011 in LA. This was the 24th year of the Nick show, and featured stars like Britney Spears, Justin Timberlake, the Kardashians, Miley Cyrus, and more!

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Selena Gomez and band headed to ‘DWTS’ on April 5th

Selena Gomez & the Scene will reportedly be performing next week on ‘Dancing with the Stars.’

Gomez and her band will reportedly be performing “Who Says” on the April 5th episode, states Stitch Kingdom. Pros Mark Ballas and Chelsie Hightower will reportedly dance during the performance.

The Tuesday episode with Gomez’s performance will be one where an elimination will take place. Gomez’s next album will be released this summer.

Will you tune in for Selena Gomez’s performance?
Well if you ask me I will surely will.

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Selena Gomez Kicks Off Radio Disney's 15th Birthday Celebration!

Did you know that Radio Disney is 15 years young?  The radio station that plays all of our favorite jams is celebrating it's 15th birthday with huge prizes and even bigger guests.

To kick off the festivities, Selena Gomez stopped by the Radio Disney studio's to do a "Take Over With Ernie D" and have some fun cutting a huge birthday cake.  Selena performed an acoustic version of her hit single "Who Says" and shared some details about her upcoming tour with Allstar Weekend. 

 "First of all, I'm going to need to bring some of my girlfriends, because I'm going to go crazy with all the boys. I think it's going to be a huge party, which is exactly what I want it to be…always fun, never serious!"  

You'll also want to stay tuned to Radio Disney because they have more awesome guests stopping by like Willow Smith, Jordin Sparks, Greyson Chance, Cody Simpson, Ashley Tisdale and Austin Butler, cast members from Disney Channel’s “Shake It Up,” “Lemonade Mouth” and “Good Luck Charlie.”  And if that wasn't enough they are giving away over 80 chances to win amazing prizes in the "Pick Your Present" contest.  Prizes include guitars signed by Taylor, Selena, Willow, Allstar Weekend, Greyson and Cody, and more, plus iPads, iPod Touches, Wii consoles, Flip cameras and gift cards.

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Love and Peace Always

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Selena Gomez and Demi Lovato: How big was their feud??

First off all I hate Selena Gomez (April fool) 


The statement can never ever be possible especially for me


Now to the Topic:

 This Picture was taken in 2008!!

In early 2010 it was reported that Selena Gomez and Demi Lovato had a falling out. They both made comments to the media that made it seem like they were no longer friends. Now, that they appear to be best friends again, every is thrilled. But, how big was their falling out to begin with?

No one really knows how big of a fight Gomez and Lovato really had. The tabloids ran with the story and blew it completely out of proportion as they do with everything. The fact remains that nobody has any idea how bad things really got between the two.

For all we know, they simply has a disagreement that got misconstrued in the press. Regular people have fights all the time with their friends but they don't always stop being friends. It also doesn't get reported in the media. When you have a fight with a friend you may something you regret in the heat of the moment or even a few weeks later if you're really mad. That may be what happened between Lovato and Gomez. But, when they say something they regret, it gets reported on and then the rumors start and then story takes a whole new form.

I'm not saying that Demi Lovato and Selena Gomez didn't stop being friends for a time, but according to them they didn't. Is there any reason for them to lie about something like that? If they stopped being friends and then made up why wouldn't they just admit it?

In a recent interview Gomez said that there is no truth to the rumors that her and Demi were in a feud and that they are and have always been best friends.

Why would she lie about something like that? It just doesn't make any sense.

I think what we have here with Demi Lovato and Selena Gomez is a case of the tabloids and certain websites, taking this story and blowing it out of proportion. It is obvious that the two had a fight and said something they probably regret, but we have no idea if they patched things up privately shortly after it began.

If Selena and Demi say there isn't a problem and there never was, then we see no reason not to believe them at this point.

What do you think?
Was the Selena Gomez and Demi Lovato feud blown out of proportion?

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P.s. I came to know its more proffesiona lto write the last name than the first